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The Rules of Survival | 
 enlarge | Author: Nancy Werlin
Publisher: Dial
Category: Book
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Sales Rank: 277129
Media: Hardcover
Reading Level: Young Adult
Number Of Items: 1
Pages: 272
Shipping Weight (lbs): 0.7
Dimensions (in): 8.3 x 5.6 x 1.1
ISBN: 0803730012
EAN: 9780803730014
ASIN: 0803730012
Publication Date: September 7, 2006
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Book Description
It all starts when Matthew observes a heroic scene in a convenience store: A man named Murdoch puts himself between an abusive father and his son. Matt is determined to get to know this man. And when, amazingly, Murdoch begins dating Matt's mother, it seems as if life may become peaceful for the first time. Matt and his sisters have never before known a moment of peace in a household ruled by their unpredictable, vicious mother. And so, after Murdoch inevitably breaks up with her and the short period of family calm is over, Matt sees that he needs to take action. He refuses to let his family remain at risk. Can he call upon his hero, Murdoch? And if not, what might his desperation lead him to do? A thought-provoking exploration of self-reliance and the nature of evil and a heart-wrenching portrait of a family in crisis, this is Nancy Werlin's most compulsively readable novel yet.
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 the rules of survival March 25, 2008
The narrative is set in the form of a letter Matthew is writing to his younger sister Emmy about the events that led up to their emancipation from their abusive mom, Nikki.
Apparently, whatever's wrong with Nikki (my guess would be a personality disorder) has been there from the start, and growing up, she tormented her younger sister and behaved much the same way with people as she does with her children now (lying, making threats, physical violence, and psychological manipulation). Unlike some people with mental problems, Nikki apparently never has any kind of period where she is stable. Moreover, her moods can and do turn on a dime, going from happiness to psychotic rage in a second.
When Matt and his two sisters see a stranger defend a child against his abusive dad in a store, they hope to somehow befriend him (the stranger, Murdoch). Their mom finds out and beats them to it, but after she breaks up with Murdoch (and her crazy behavior escalates to the point where he gets a restraining order), he stays in touch with the kids and tries to help them find a safer home.
The characters were well-drawn, but compared to the mom, who appeared to be in a nonstop manic state, a bit colorless. Also, this book, unlike many about teens, lacked flowery metaphor, sophisticated philosophizing about life, and sassy dialogue that sounded like it was taken from primetime TV. This made the tone more authentic (so many teenage narrators sound like they've attended a liberal arts college, then grad school, plus a writer's workshop), but at times, I wanted a bit more description of the characters and how they felt. Also, much of the drama happened without the narrator present, so his descriptions were secondhand. Still, it is a powerful book about abuse.
I had to wonder, though, at the lack of other sympathetic companions in these kids' lives. Not necessarily ones who could help, but just friends, neighbors, teachers, coaches, etc. - though they didn't appear to have any hobbies. Even abused kids come into contact with adults who care, although they may not be able to rescue them from their situation.
Did Callie's teacher, for example, never wonder why her highly intelligent student stopped washing her hair for weeks on end? Aren't teachers trained to see the warning signs of abuse nowadays?
 I enjoyed this read January 30, 2008
1 out of 1 found this review helpful
What a heartbreaker for these children. I enjoyed the book and stayed up late to finish it.
How to Survive a Dangerours Life January 18, 2008
1 out of 1 found this review helpful
Imagine living in an unstable home where you never know what to expect. Your mother is abusive and you must protect your sisters. If this sounds exciting to you then you would like The Rules of Survival by Nancy Werlin.
Matt lives in a small apartment with his mother, Nikki and his two sisters, Callie and Emmy. They see a man named Murdoch save a little boy from his abusive dad. To Matt, Murdoch is like superhero. They form a close bond because they have something very special in common. Does Murdoch stay with them forever? Could Nikki go to jail? Can the kids stay together? Will the kids survive?
To find out these answers you will just have to read this exciting book!! We give this book 5 stars.
by Whyntir ,Frankie, Jose,and Jerome
 Living With a Psychotic Mom January 14, 2008
2 out of 3 found this review helpful
If you want a book that has excitement and drama then I would recommend "The Rules of Survival". This book is about three kids Mathew, Callie, and Emmy who live in Boston, Massachusetts. They live with a psychotic mom. Mathew the oldest son has to protect Callie and Emmy. Then one day at a store they meet a guy named Murdoch. The kids see Murdoch protecting a kid from his dad, so they hope Murdoch can rescue them from the abusive actions of their mom, Nikki. Will Murdoch be able to deal with Nikki? Will he be able to protect the kids? We give this book 3 stars , because it is a very exciting book with problems about abusive parents that could have been our life.
By:Blanca,Cindy,Marisol,Oscar
Mommy Dearest Redux October 15, 2007
4 out of 5 found this review helpful
I know I'm dating myself, but this book is reminiscent of that classic book and movie, MOMMY DEAREST, in which we endure "the mother from hell." In THE RULES OF SURVIVAL, Werlin situates us in Southie (South Boston to you) with a pretty mom named Nikki who abuses her three kids: narrator Matt (age 13 when the book begins), sister Callie (11), and step-sister Emmy (5). Nikki lives above her sister, Aunt Bobbie, who makes like an ostrich and keeps her head in the sand for the bulk of the book. Speaking of ineffective, there's Matt's dad Ben, who divorced Nikki to become a male nurse and now acts as helpless as the kids themselves.
The catalyst of the book comes in the form of a man we meet in the first sentence of the first chapter: "For me, the story begins with Murdoch McIlvane." It's a bit contrived, but Callie and Matt witness Murdoch facing down an abusive father at a local Cumberland Farms (milk store to you). Matt practically stalks the guy because he's convinced Murdoch is "the answer" to this novel's big question: Mommy Dearest.
Speaking of, she's almost as hard to take as a reader as she is as a mother. By the end of the book, I was seeking deliverance myself. (I went to a Cumberland Farms, but nothing much happened beyond a clerk ringing up some Slim Jims.) Nevertheless, credit where it's due, the mercurial and unpredictable nature of Nikki's schizo-like personality (Dr. Mommy and Mrs. Hyde, anyone?) was an education, and this is no doubt Werlin's intent.
Written in the form of a long letter to Emmy from Matt, the book only touches on the legal ramifications of trying to wrest children from a mother (clearly favored by our legal systems, even in situations like this... well, until it gets REALLY out of control, anyway). It's more a play-by-play and an exercise in frustration and repetition. One structural objection I had with the book was Werlin's giving away of the ending about halfway through. Perhaps she thought this wasn't the point (feeling the story was in the journey, not the destination), but it wouldn't have hurt to have played the suspense card by keeping readers in the dark until the bitter end. Also, there's a little "surprise inside" thrown in at the end. For me, it wasn't a Cracker Jack move, but for others, who knows? Obviously I cannot reveal it here. See if you find it realistic when you get there.
Despite the verbal and physical abuse, this novel is fairly clean and thus safe for older middle school kids. A morality play of sorts, it should be especially attractive to kids who wonder if something's not right with mom or dad's harsh treatment of them. And no, I don't mean garden variety discipline (which equates to love). I mean crossing the line of decency against someone you're supposed to love...
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