| The Gift of Fear |  | Author: Gavin De Becker
Publisher: Back Bay Books
Category: Book
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Media: Paperback
ISBN: 0316235776
EAN: 9780316235778
ASIN: 0316235776
Publication Date: May 1, 1998
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Each hour, 75 women are raped in the United States, and every few seconds, a woman is beaten. Each day, 400 Americans suffer shooting injuries, and another 1,100 face criminals armed with guns. Author Gavin de Becker says victims of violent behavior usually feel a sense of fear before any threat or violence takes place. They may distrust the fear, or it may impel them to some action that saves their lives. A leading expert on predicting violent behavior, de Becker believes we can all learn to recognize these signals of the "universal code of violence," and use them as tools to help us survive. The book teaches how to identify the warning signals of a potential attacker and recommends strategies for dealing with the problem before it becomes life threatening. The case studies are gripping and suspenseful, and include tactics for dealing with similar situations. People don't just "snap" and become violent, says de Becker, whose clients include federal government agencies, celebrities, police departments, and shelters for battered women. "There is a process as observable, and often as predictable, as water coming to a boil." Learning to predict violence is the cornerstone to preventing it. De Becker is a master of the psychology of violence, and his advice may save your life. --Joan Price
Product Description
True fear is a gift.
Unwarranted fear is a curse.
Learn how to tell the difference.
A date won't take "no" for an answer. The new nanny gives a mother an uneasy feeling. A stranger in a deserted parking lot offers unsolicited help. The threat of violence surrounds us every day. But we can protect ourselves, by learning to trust—and act on—our gut instincts.
In this empowering book, Gavin de Becker, the man Oprah Winfrey calls the nation's leading expert on violent behavior, shows you how to spot even subtle signs of danger—before it's too late. Shattering the myth that most violent acts are unpredictable, de Becker, whose clients include top Hollywood stars and government agencies, offers specific ways to protect yourself and those you love, including...how to act when approached by a stranger...when you should fear someone close to you...what to do if you are being stalked...how to uncover the source of anonymous threats or phone calls...the biggest mistake you can make with a threatening person...and more. Learn to spot the danger signals others miss. It might just save your life.
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 Who can I thank for this wonderful gift? August 21, 2008
0 out of 2 found this review helpful
My houseboy, who lies in wait, ready to ambush me as soon as I enter my apartment? My government, which keeps a constant eye on me to make sure no harm is being done to me? My God, who has lightning bolts and whipped cream pies locked and loaded for whenever I might stray too far from the straight and narrow? No, I think it was most likely my uncle, who gave me that can of spring-loaded snakes for my sixth birthday.
Read it 10 years ago and am reading it again August 19, 2008
10 years ago this book shocked me. I gave it to my daughter, my friends and other women to read. It's an IMPERATIVE read ladies! Buy 2 copies today -- one for yourself and one for your daughter. Don't put it off. My husband read it and loved it too. Thanks Gavin.
Love, Amy Arnaz (aka Mrs. Desi Arnaz Jr.)
Gift of Fear August 16, 2008
Gavin De Becker's The Gift of Fear really sets itself apart from the typical book about crime.What I find interesting is that the contents in the book come from a man who is not only educated, but is also a real life victim to crime and violent behavior. When somebody can support thier books with real life experience, that is something worth reading. The Gift of Fear is an excellent example of how one has that "gut feeling or instinct " and how you can learn to utilize it to win the big game, the fight , or win back your very life...The Gift of Fear is a great book and now he has another titled Just 2 Seconds which I currently am reading. I encourage you to check them out !
Gavin de Becker does it again... August 15, 2008
I just saw Gavin de Becker on Oprah and I am currently reading his new book, JUST 2 SECONDS. This book is just as compelling as The Gift of Fear. Gavin de Becker is a pioneer in his industry and even more, a great writer. In the book, Gift of Fear Mr. de Becker speaks about listening to instincts and the reasons behind them. Furthermore, understanding future behaviors with current actions is addressed in the book in an in-depth manner. Both books are written only as he could and it is certain that everyone should add them to their collection or home library. The information is compelling so much so that you can not put these books down.
So far, JUST 2 SECONDS has drawn me in as he dissects the moments before an event. His ability to draw my attention in on this very crucial and minuscule time period has been incredible. Mr. de Becker writes the information in an understandable, interesting enthralling manner. I look forward to finishing this book and to see what he writes next. Don't miss out on these books!
GOF was his first- His new book is JUST 2 SECONDS. August 15, 2008
0 out of 3 found this review helpful
Gift of fear is a classic that opened eyes to the power of one's intuition. It's a ground breaking book. If you like "Gift of Fear" you'll love his newest book, "Just 2 Seconds". As are all of Gavin's books, "Just 2 Seconds" is worth buying! Check it out!
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