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 enlarge | Author: Diablo Cody
Category: Book
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Avg. Customer Rating:  84 reviews
Sales Rank: 529733
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Media: Hardcover
Number Of Items: 1
Pages: 224
Shipping Weight (lbs): 0.7
Dimensions (in): 8.3 x 5.6 x 1
ASIN: B000FZDKNO
Publication Date: December 29, 2005
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 Fun Fast read June 13, 2008
0 out of 2 found this review helpful
A great summer read. I breezed through it in a few hours. Funny and super interesting. Everything you ever wanted to know about being a stripper and everything you didn't want to know, too. I loved it.
 A far cry from the big picture June 10, 2008
3 out of 4 found this review helpful
224 pages of one-liners.
Don't waste your time if it's depth you're looking for.
Detailed criticism from someone in the Industry June 5, 2008
17 out of 22 found this review helpful
I never worked with Diablo Cody (she was before my time), but I know someone who did. She was the one who suggested I read the book. Afterwards, we both talked about how we want to write the anti-Diablo Cody strip-club book. This book is like A Million Little Pieces, but because of the veiled nature of the industry, the facts are harder to check. I think the book is disgraceful, but the fallacies and exaggerations are mostly hidden to those who have never worked in the industry.
For the record, for six months she worked in the Dollhouse in Sexworld, which is a peepshow. While that is part of the sex industry, it is a very different job from dancing. In fact, as she points out in the book, anything involving penetration is illegal in MN, yet the Dolls could get away with doing it. Because of this, I find her attitude of being "above" the "dirtiness" of certain clubs disingenuous, and her condescending description of dancers an insult to any woman in that occupation. Her sudden vague-ness when describing what occurred in the Loft at Deja Vu also begs the question of how candid she really is. The few things she actually mentions are blatantly illegal, things that many dancers never do, yet despite this lack of willpower in the face of a generous and pushy client, she still expresses her belief in her own mental superiority to other strippers. I guess she didn't see the irony.
For the most part, her book revealed a few important things about the industry (club fees, work expenses, irritating customers) but did little to explain stereotypes, or even debunk them. Instead, her patronizing descriptions of dancers (either blond fake-titted bimbos at Sheiks, or drug-addicted boorish wrecks at Skyway) simply echoed the two most common stereotypes of strippers. For someone whose writing exposes their obvious belief in their own superior intellect, she was far less observant than most "dumb dancers" I know.
I think one reason is because she went into the job from a research angle. Most of us get into the industry (as staff or entertainers) because of a financial need it would fulfill, like supporting kids, paying for school, getting out of debt, etc. It is an industry that can open doors for women (and men) and give us opportunities we may not have had otherwise. The sense of solidarity between individuals can be quite strong, although it was notably absent in Cody's case.
The title really says it all: "A Year in the Life of an UNLIKELY Stripper". Her assumption, (obviously supported by many people, much to my chagrin), that a nerd, educated woman, geek, etc etc simply doesn't fit the mold of "stripper". My friend who worked with her (call her B) said that, when Cody expressed surprise that B was going to college, B pointed out that most of the dancers at the Choice were in school. Cody responded with disbelief and dismissal "No they don't"*eye roll*. I think that pretty much sums up Cody's attitude towards the people in the sex industry, and explains why she felt girls were "mean" at the Choice. I currently work with many of the former staff from Sheiks, and they complained that she turned the club into a generic, faceless place when there was so much personality and dynamics to be explored in both the customers and the dancers/staff.
I think that the 6 months she spent as a DANCER is very significant. Most strip club workers (dancers and staff) are excited at the money, the change in lifestyle, the flexible schedules, and the newness when we first start the job. I also think that most of us, after the first year, are more reserved and realistic in our enthusiasm because we've had plenty of time to reflect on how the industry has changed us, and we have seen plenty of men and women go through a less than desirable change. Perhaps, with a more empathetic attitude, Cody would have had a more realistic view of the industry, one focusing on individual change beyond her own self-centered story. Somehow, after speaking to B and others who remember her, I think I'm being a bit optimistic.
Diablo Cody held herself aloof out of a sense of intellectual superiority, and thus blinded herself to the wealth of information and reality that she could have revealed to an (obviously) captive audience. It's a shame.
 3.5 Stars May 23, 2008
1 out of 2 found this review helpful
I read this book a few years ago and was happy to see Cody switch mediums to Screen Writing (overall better for her writing style). Cody's attempts to fill every page and moment with an exorbitant amount of wit at every turn plays out better on the screen than in a book format.
From the beginning, she was trying to make every sentence stand out and it almost became a list of "look at all of the neat things I know about" instead of a book of her experiences. It was at times an interesting look into her perception of life as a sex worker but her constant body image issues coupled with her ill-placed and overabundant wit became very old, very fast.
Ironically, when looking at pictures of Cody it is very apparent she is an attractive woman. Throughout the book she constantly describes not physically fitting in with the other women which in context is laughable. Perhaps she suffers from the self-esteem that curses a lot of us women.
All in all, not a bad read but I guess the only way to summarize is "too witty for it's own good." The book could have thrived with less of the humor and sometimes attempts and the book would have been excellent. The writing style was just too over the top for my taste. At times I wasn't sure whether to laugh or roll my eyes and towards the end of the book I was doing a lot more of the latter.
 Phenomenal book written from an aberrant point of view April 28, 2008
0 out of 2 found this review helpful
Fabulous work that I could physically not put down. This book is to stripping what The Naked Ape is to humans. The author does not go for the easy kill of a tell all recollection of crazy times, rather she approaches the subject more from an anthropologists point of view but in a hysterical way. Cody is truly craftswoman with words, able to compress hilarious descriptions of disgusting situations and interesting people into single sentences. As a frequent patron of stip clubs I will never be able to gaze across the tip rail in the same way again. This book should be read by feminists and rockers alike.
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